Oftentimes we have these thoughts and visions that are kept dormant in our soul’s yearnings because we connect our thoughts with judgment and attachment to what society considers harmful and shameful. While many acts of fantasy can be quite harmful to a relationship, it is typically due to the incomplete emotional baggage they have from the past. For example: one may have experienced a traumatic sexual act when young and crave to re-experience this act, while knowing how much it hurt before. This is a perfect example of a persons need to heal this experience. People are ready to heal through fantasy when these yearnings keep creeping into their conscious minds enough to either find the appropriate partner to support them in healing or create deeper issues as a result.
May your journey be designed to bring you the best of the best of all worlds as this is your birthright!
Rabbi Melinda Bernstein
Temple of Tantra & Judaic Studies
Everyone is unique. Compare not yourself with anyone else lest you spoil God’s curriculum. Baal Shem Tov
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