The Roadmap 

   "A righteous man falls down seven times and gets up."
King Solomon, Proverbs, 24:16

Shalom & Welcome!

I'm Rabbi Melinda Bracha Bernstein. Prior to becoming a Rabbi I wrote The Roadmap as my thesis in life coach training in 2007. I evolved it into two self help books in 2008 and have helped couples, singles, gifted healers, friends and premarital clients turn their core wounds into core values. I've been a dancer, yogini, healer, life coach, wife of 20 years and have actualized my supportive gifts post divorce in 2006 by using The Roadmap. 

On Mother's Day and Israel Independence Day (5.14.2009) I was gifted an ordination on the sand of Hollywood Beach Florida after a brief training in ceremonial work. The Roadmap took me to Israel to teach "Healing Sexual Energy with Advanced Kundalini" in 2010. The it took me to Northern California from 2011 to 2015. I experienced a psychedelic experience in 2014, while living in Northern California, which provided me with the deepest insights of my own soul gifts.

I can help you with the use of Kabbalah for embodiment evolution, Human Design to eliminate the illusions and enjoy the mystery unfolding of your life purpose and The Roadmap to Everlasting Love to keep you mindful. 


 R.  Responsibility
O. Open to change
A. Awareness   
D.  Determination   
M.  Manifestation   
A. Allowing   
P. Possibility 


R.   Responsibility: Kol Yisrael Arevim Zeh Bazeh – All Israel is responsible for one another. This principle of Judaism can be found in Talmud (Shavuot 39a).  Starting with ourselves, we must respectfully take stock, honor our integrity and accept the burdens or duties that come with our spiritual path or life journey.  The duty of our soul, "Hovat HaNefesh",  is our path of ethical living.  As you surrender into this first step, you can begin the next one.

O.   Opening to change: Change requires risk, vulnerability and unknown outcomes.  Whether your focus is on social or interpersonal change, truth and trust will bring an opening. Being open to change will hopefully bring you towards repentance, "Teshuvah".  With repentance you will  return towards a path of spiritual alignment, which inherently involves being open to change and self-improvement. This is your healing (Tikkun), so be real.   

A.   Awareness: As awareness builds, you will begin to develop mindful habits that will enhance your awareness of spiritual insights, experiences, or connections. Discovering a higher consciousness "devekuth" is the ultimate religious experience. You will learn to enjoy new ways  of exploring and expressing G-d's feminine presence "Shekhinah"as she is always with you.

D.   Determination, discernment & discipline: the three D’s will help keep you on track. This is the proverbial fork in the road. Hire me and you will stay on track. Or if you think you can be your own master, that's great!

M.   Manifestation: Good outcomes like balance, wholeness, deep presence & a better future are supposed to be happening in this step. If not, go back to step one by taking responsibility or hire me for support.

A.   Allowing: For some the hardest step of all is to allow the immense goodness of life! Remember that God loves all and the negativity (Yetzer Hara) can be accepted as part of you. 

P.   Purpose, Possibility, Passion, Peace and Pleasure: love is limitless and everlasting when you create with the Roadmap! Just read my journey to redemption.

With peaceful blessings, 

Rabbi Melinda Bracha Bernstein

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