Shalom & Welcome!
Good intentions alone cannot heal generational wounds. Healing these wounds requires acknowledging the patterns that have been passed down, understanding their roots, and actively working to transform them into pathways of growth and connection. The Roadmap is a transformative tool designed to help you align with what’s best for your life while trusting G-d to guide the rest, inviting you to release control and embrace faith in divine timing as you take inspired action.
I created The Roadmap in 2007, during a time when my body, mind and spirit were shattered by divorce. The experience inspired me to develop a framework for rebuilding my life, focusing on aligning body, mind, and spirit to create a stronger foundation. I created my own teaching to rebuild my body, mind and spirit as "the temple" and the Roadmap was the pathway that lifted me from pain to purpose. I’ve been using it to coach other women on their journeys ever since.
Whatever challenges you face, transforming your story is your Tikkun—your opportunity for redemption and healing in this lifetime. For example, it might mean turning a difficult relationship into a chance for deeper understanding or transforming career setbacks into opportunities to realign with your true purpose.
The reward of this work brings goodness, ease, and balance to your health and happiness. It also honors your soul, strengthens your soul contracts, and uplifts the soul of your communities.
R. Responsibility
O. Open to change
A. Awareness
D. Determination
M. Manifestation
A. Allowing
P. Possibility
R. Responsibility: All humanity is responsible for one another. This principle can be found in Talmud (Shavuot 39a). Starting with ourselves, we must respectfully take stock, honor our integrity and accept the burdens or duties that come with our spiritual path or life journey. The duty of our soul, "Ha-Nefesh", is our path of ethical living. As you surrender into and accept this first step, you can begin the next one.
O. Opening to change: Change requires risk, vulnerability and unknown outcomes. Whether your focus is on social or interpersonal change, truth and trust will bring an opening. Being open to change will open the door of humility and move you into ease as you repent "Teshuvah". With repentance you will return towards a path of spiritual alignment and self-improvement. This is your healing (Tikkun), so keep opening.
A. Awareness: Awareness will begin to deepen once you've opened your mind and heart. You may find yourself being curious about life's offerings. If so, you will enhance your awareness and connection to the Divine. Discovering a higher consciousness "devekuth" is forming as you explore and connect to G-d's feminine presence "Shekhinah".
D. Determination, discernment & discipline: the three D’s will help keep you on track. This is the proverbial fork in the road. Keep these three D's in the forefront of your mind and keep desperation, depression, disgust etc. in the rear view mirror. This is the step that'll make you or break you, over and over again.
M. Manifestation: Good outcomes like balance, wholeness, deep presence & a better future are supposed to be happening in this step. If not, go back to step one and take responsibility for the choice you made that didn't give you the result you sought.
A. Allowing: For many, the hardest step of all is to allow the immense goodness of life! Remember that God loves all and the negativity (Yetzer Hara) can and will get along with the positivity (Yetzer Tov) as you transform your relationship to the stories of the past.
P. Purpose, Possibility, Passion, Peace and Pleasure: love and life is limitless and everlasting when you create with the Roadmap! Click on my journey to redemption and see how I turned my life around with it and/or feel free to read the hundreds of reviews online by googling my name.
To see if you are a good fit to work with Melinda, book your 15 minute discovery session today.
With peaceful blessings,
Rabbi Melinda Bracha Bernstein
PS: Click here for the Premarital Course Certificate of Completion Florida Statute 741.0305
Good intentions alone cannot heal generational wounds. Healing these wounds requires acknowledging the patterns that have been passed down, understanding their roots, and actively working to transform them into pathways of growth and connection. The Roadmap is a transformative tool designed to help you align with what’s best for your life while trusting G-d to guide the rest, inviting you to release control and embrace faith in divine timing as you take inspired action.
I created The Roadmap in 2007, during a time when my body, mind and spirit were shattered by divorce. The experience inspired me to develop a framework for rebuilding my life, focusing on aligning body, mind, and spirit to create a stronger foundation. I created my own teaching to rebuild my body, mind and spirit as "the temple" and the Roadmap was the pathway that lifted me from pain to purpose. I’ve been using it to coach other women on their journeys ever since.
Whatever challenges you face, transforming your story is your Tikkun—your opportunity for redemption and healing in this lifetime. For example, it might mean turning a difficult relationship into a chance for deeper understanding or transforming career setbacks into opportunities to realign with your true purpose.
The reward of this work brings goodness, ease, and balance to your health and happiness. It also honors your soul, strengthens your soul contracts, and uplifts the soul of your communities.
R. Responsibility
O. Open to change
A. Awareness
D. Determination
M. Manifestation
A. Allowing
P. Possibility
R. Responsibility: All humanity is responsible for one another. This principle can be found in Talmud (Shavuot 39a). Starting with ourselves, we must respectfully take stock, honor our integrity and accept the burdens or duties that come with our spiritual path or life journey. The duty of our soul, "Ha-Nefesh", is our path of ethical living. As you surrender into and accept this first step, you can begin the next one.
O. Opening to change: Change requires risk, vulnerability and unknown outcomes. Whether your focus is on social or interpersonal change, truth and trust will bring an opening. Being open to change will open the door of humility and move you into ease as you repent "Teshuvah". With repentance you will return towards a path of spiritual alignment and self-improvement. This is your healing (Tikkun), so keep opening.
A. Awareness: Awareness will begin to deepen once you've opened your mind and heart. You may find yourself being curious about life's offerings. If so, you will enhance your awareness and connection to the Divine. Discovering a higher consciousness "devekuth" is forming as you explore and connect to G-d's feminine presence "Shekhinah".
D. Determination, discernment & discipline: the three D’s will help keep you on track. This is the proverbial fork in the road. Keep these three D's in the forefront of your mind and keep desperation, depression, disgust etc. in the rear view mirror. This is the step that'll make you or break you, over and over again.
M. Manifestation: Good outcomes like balance, wholeness, deep presence & a better future are supposed to be happening in this step. If not, go back to step one and take responsibility for the choice you made that didn't give you the result you sought.
A. Allowing: For many, the hardest step of all is to allow the immense goodness of life! Remember that God loves all and the negativity (Yetzer Hara) can and will get along with the positivity (Yetzer Tov) as you transform your relationship to the stories of the past.
P. Purpose, Possibility, Passion, Peace and Pleasure: love and life is limitless and everlasting when you create with the Roadmap! Click on my journey to redemption and see how I turned my life around with it and/or feel free to read the hundreds of reviews online by googling my name.
To see if you are a good fit to work with Melinda, book your 15 minute discovery session today.
With peaceful blessings,
Rabbi Melinda Bracha Bernstein
PS: Click here for the Premarital Course Certificate of Completion Florida Statute 741.0305